Prince and Being True to Himself, Part 2: Prince Music Sex Romance

Prince could obviously be playful and bold with his “dirty mind” front and center, but he transcended all labels and categories with sheer talent, a noble sense of aesthetics and style along with appreciation of the fine art of expressing the joy and wonder of being in love.

Prince’s Identity
Who was Prince to us? Do we really know? What did he want from his music? What did he want from his listeners? These questions are intriguing in the lack of a simple answer. Prince was prolific in his creation. He was just as varied in the images of himself that he presented as he was in the genres of music that he blended. He was defined by who he wasn’t–someone who acquiesced to being a “type”. Of course, his androgynous manner became universally recognized and eventually a literal trademark. Yet one could argue that it only served to raise more questions. Androgynous in dress does not always translate into lifestyle. Prince never explicitly expressed passion for the same sex although he may accept love “from anyone–girl or boy” (“Anna Stesia” from LoveSexy) when lonely. Gender bending and androgyny we can explore further but are not my focus here. I will, however, come back to my question of Prince and who he was. I think he once summed up his musical focus in a song title that does fit him up to a point*–DMSR (Dance Music Sex Romance). Dance and music sort of come with the territory if you’re to do much pop music especially in the “1999” era (original “1999” song and album). (“1999”, little doubt, remains one of his most energetic and danceable songs along with its cousin “Baby, I’m a Star”.) What we intend to explore here is his characteristic display of raw sex contrasted with his expression of deep love and affection–a heart-felt sense of romance.
*A key component is missing yes, but spirituality has been covered in separate post on this blog and will be touched upon later.
Sex
Prince sang boldly about his once favorite topic of sex on his hit singles like “Get Off”. Prince knew what he wanted, and he expressed it without hesitation. He flaunted sexuality and dared say exactly what he was thinking on records and even on the radio. His very first hit record was the R&B classic “Soft & Wet” whose subject matter was a little subtler than some records today. However, there’s very little room for confusion about what he’s referring to when he says “your love is soft and wet”. Quite remarkably, the rest of the album, containing songs not as favorable for radio play, was all about love and heartbreak. It sometimes seems, ironically, like the sexuality was or may have been a ploy to get you into his world. Prince knew what he had to offer, and once you were in his world you were hooked. Sexuality on other albums (such as Controversy or Purple Rain) was not always the greatest lure. Yet the deeper you went into his world the more you would discover a more hardcore and shocking expression of lust and carnal taboo (such as “Sister” or “Darling Nikki”). It wasn’t a ploy. He was committed to putting himself out there like few at the time would dare way before the boldness of the 2 Live Crew and explicit rap music of the late 80s and the 90s. What was it about Prince that made unbridled sexuality such an important aspect of his music? Did Prince, in his prime, feel that boundless free expression (“everybody just a freakin'”) was truly that important? If his early dress, trench coat, bare chest and bikini briefs, is any indication, I would be tempted to shout “yes”. It is exciting yet frightening at the same time akin to venturing alone into a raunchier part of a big city. For the young people desperate for a mode of expressing their desire to rebel against the current traditions, rules and taboos, it was like a repressed 21-year-old virgin venturing into the Red Light District. Prince didn’t necessarily give you permission to be your sexual self; he boldly embodied it and sent you an invitation to do the same.
Romance
Prince could obviously be playful and bold with his “dirty mind” front and center, but he transcended all labels and categories with sheer talent, a noble sense of aesthetics and style along with appreciation of the fine art of expressing the joy and wonder of being in love. Boundless romance was an undeniable Prince trademark, and his relationships were numerous yet many had great depth. Proteges were often romantically linked with Prince including the infamous Vanity, who we may infer through the timing of the affair and its ending along with the content and emotional potency of the lyrics to be the inspiration for many Purple Rain era tracks (e.g. “When Doves Cry”). I’m sure there is clearer evidence than this if you search carefully (through interviews with people who knew). The fact that Prince insisted on performing his own creations and giving us honest passion while doing it to the utmost degree is the prime exhibit of his enduring authenticity. He was indeed true to who he was at his core. He loved beautiful women and dared give his heart in the process. For those women who’d enter such a world, the result would be the expression of raw emotion and revelations that would be shared with the entire world. Who knows how prepared “the beautiful ones” were to have their pictures on display to an endless number of longing and envious fans who loved nothing more than to enter the world of this intriguing man who defied everything you knew about what you’d expect him to be. Upon introduction, what you found was a perfect stranger to whom anyone, “girl” or “boy”, could relate in such a real sense–a reclusive pop/rock “star” who displayed the depth of his mind, heart and soul center stage. The drama, adventure, passion, and pure emotion of his most serious romances as shared with Susanna Melvoin and Sheila E. were just as important to who Prince was as the flings, flames and short-lived courtships for which he is likely most famous. Songs like “Head”, “Erotic City” and “Get Off” of course belie the fact that he in fact is just as responsible for his image in the media as much any sort of rumors and fantastic stories may have been. Yet his vulnerability in romance, long before vulnerability became a buzzword, was a key signature of his in many respects. Much of this could be influenced by the desperate pleas for affection and forgiveness in many prominent R&B songs and classics such as “Please Please Please” by James Brown, a key influence. Still, Prince seems to go a bit further than this when he writes lyrics to songs like “If I Was Your Girlfriend” and “When 2 R In Love” which are only enhanced by a taste of sensuous suggestion that seems to flow with thoughts of adoration when performed in a way that only Prince himself could have conceived.
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My Experience of Prince–An Aside
All in all, Prince was an artist like no other. That is in part why one blog post could not do this topic justice. Even a 6 Part series will be unlikely to do so. There are many real examples that could amplify these words much more. Yet this is for the fans of the man who want to share in remembering him and honoring him. I only hope each person enjoys recalling Prince as much as I do. I experienced him, as if for the first time, in the most real sense when I personally explored the meanings of his music in high school after purchasing “The Love Symbol” album and marveling at how amazing Prince was at articulating the beats of another man’s heart when expressing his own (see “Love 2 the 9’s”). I remembered hits like “1999” and “Erotic City” playing on the radio. I remembered thinking how PRINCE was a strange name for a singer when I saw it printed on the sleeve of cassettes in the record store. I remembered hearing his name in the same sentence with Michael Jackson. And I even remembered having a copy of the 45 (vinyl) of “Purple Rain” with a B-side (“God”) my dad (a Methodist pastor, ironically) would not allow me to play.  But akin to the words of “God” (no pun intended), I’d never really listened. Yet as any Prince fan knows, once you truly listen, it’s a new world. You’re not the same and never will be. When you truly listen to Purple Rain, the album, your life changes (again). You listen to Parade. You listen to 1999, the album. Around the World in a Day. It keeps going. Once you really listen to the words, the instrumentation, the way the bands play under his direction… and the solos. Ah, the solos. If I were to mention much more such as getting into the performances, this article may never end. But I will get to much of that in the future. I would love for others, even, to share the love with me through this site. It’s not about me. It’s about all of us, and the soul who brought us together. If nothing else, these words serve to celebrate the man and artist who catalyzed a life that otherwise felt unlived and empty without him. And while I’m in a better spot now than I was then, I certainly feel his absence. I know we all do. Hopefully, for that reason, we can appreciate the years we did share with him even more. To help us along, he left us a little something to remember him by–his music.
–Patrick
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Prince Blog Series, Part 1: The Artist Known As Prince

If nothing else, Prince was always, from the day he arrived on the scene, true to himself. He wrote and composed his own work even playing almost all of the instruments on his first two albums. It was also apparent in his style of dress wearing skin tight gold pants in his first national television appearance, his message, his bold nonconformity, and his unrelenting trek into areas of controversy.

Part 1

Prince and Being True to Himself

If nothing else, Prince was always, from the day he arrived on the scene, true to himself.  He wrote and composed his own work even playing almost all of the instruments on his first two albums. It was also apparent in his style of dress wearing skin tight gold pants in his first national television appearance, his message, his bold nonconformity, and his unrelenting trek into areas of controversy. His vulnerability on the song “Why You Wanna Treat Me So Bad” is hauntingly apparent. You can’t help but feel for him until you hear the boldness of “Bambi”, where he suggests to a lesbian prospect, “it’s better with a man”. Prince was famously prolific; however, that becomes more significant with his exploration various genre. He defied limitations. He did not allow himself to be defined by others. He was always about innovation and creating something new and original. His talent allowed him to transcend the rules of race, gender, culture, politics and much more. Prince was fun and funny, yet teasing and hypersexual. He was highly spiritual and inspirational. Beyond that he was androgynous, stylish, rude, irreverent, curious, self-effacing, creative, generous, proud, passionate, health-conscious, intelligent, and expressive. He was unparalleled in his accomplishments and popular both because of and in spite of his personality. He had known rejection, but ironically enough, those who wanted to meet him were faced with the prospect of just as likely being rejected. Just ask Matt Damon. And if rumors are to be believed, Slash and David Lee Roth.

Prince and Minneapolis

When Prince appeared on national television on American Bandstand, he appeared to respond quite oddly giving very brief answers and even holding up 4 fingers in response to a question. It has been suggested that he took it very personally when Dick Clark suggested that Minneapolis was not a place known for producing great music. But one must admit that he did seem nervous his first time on national television. Even so, Prince’s companionship with Minneapolis was like a marriage. It lasted until death. He built his famous Paisley Park Studios in Chanhassen, just southeast of Minneapolis, in 1988. He patronized local business and bought properties there. It would be very hard to imagine, at least for his most enduring and loyal fans, a world where you thought of one without the other. There are a few remarkable things that Minneapolis is known for, but among musicians and fans, none of those come near to eclipsing the name Prince or even Paisley Park. So add to my lengthy list of Princely traits the word “loyal”; at least, to his city and for quite some time (most significantly 1977-1996), his first record company–a topic for another time. Prince chose none other than his real hometown for the setting of the legendary Purple Rain. It very well could’ve been a fictionalized spot in New York City or L.A., but when you hear of Lake Minnetonka and First Avenue, you see Prince’s real roots in a place with 13 lakes and lots of snow. The name comes from a Sioux word (mni) for “water”. Oprah asked The Artist in her interview with him why he stayed in this place of few notable celebrity residents. His reply? “It’s so cold that it keeps the bad people out.” It was one of the few consistencies about him in his career with most in addition to his level of musical skills and showmanship. And with his passing, it was shown that Minneapolis loved him just as he had loved her. Minneapolis Mayor Betsy Hodges called him “a child of our city”. The Star Tribune quotes her as saying, “Prince never left us, and we never left him.”

The Minneapolis Sound

The Minneapolis Sound was considered a sub-genre of R&B/Funk whose origination can be credited back to one man, Prince. Prince was heavily influenced by funk bands, traditional R&B, rock, and even folk music (i.e. Joni Mitchell). His exposure and mastery of multiple instruments further pushed him further into making a more distinctive flavor of music that tapped into not only his influences but also his impressive skill set. When you add in the advent for synthesizers in the late 70s and much of the 80s, you add in a lot of possibilities. Someone as individualistic as the Prince of the Dirty Mind and Controversy eras was sure to find a lot of possibilities for more honestly expressing himself rather than just regurgitating the riffs and instrumentation of the past. Prince was looking to create something that didn’t yet exist; something that defied categorization. Was the Dirty Mind album a hybrid of funk, r&b, 80s pop, and rock? Or was it something of its own that defied description? Perhaps, that was what was so importance of the Minneapolis sound. The obscurity of Minneapolis in association with any kind of genre or distinctive art was the perfect setup to allow Prince’s infectious sound to be labeled. Minneapolis was not previously associated with music or much in the way of pop culture in any meaningful way before Prince. So it became the perfect signature to identify his product. Even the name Minneapolis just sounds has a different ring to it than say, Memphis or Chicago, whose constant mention may have reduced their distinctiveness. It is a city in one of the northernmost states in which you would be highly unlikely to think of as the source of funk at least until Mr. Nelson entered the national stage.

Prince’s Sound: The Proteges

Very soon after his entry into the world of musical celebrity, the sound extended well beyond Mr. Nelson and his bands, whose presence was initially only necessary for onstage performances where instruments would have to be played simultaneously unlike in the studio where he could write, arrange, sing, and play every single instrument laying one track at a time–an interesting scenario that would encourage much experimentation naturally for someone creative. For someone like Prince, that potential would be exploited exponentially. One is left to think that the mentoring of a band may have lead to what came next. Prince’s reach then began to extend to other talent. The most remarkable legacy of this is his introduction of dance/funk band The Time. Not only did Prince shape their sound, but he also introduced swagger to the band reportedly encouraging them to emulate the attitude of his hero, heavyweight boxing champion Muhammad Ali. What is well-known to many who discovered the man prior to or during the 1980s is the number of proteges he introduced to the world–mostly female to boot. The list included Vanity, Apollonia, and Sheila E initially. It would go on to include Sheena Easton, Jill Jones, The Family, Ingrid Chavez and many who during the period after the original Minneapolis Sound had been not so much abandoned as transcended by Prince and his musical repertoire that relied on constant evolution and exploration of many genres and versions of himself as chose to express it. The list could be much bigger until you realize just how difficult it is to say who was a true protege versus a collaborator like former band members Wendy and Lisa or Rosie Gaines who are immensely talented themselves and contributed much to his “sound” and possibly influenced his worldview even if in a subtle fashion. However, with proteges (whose music he wrote and produced), it was Prince who was infamously in total control. He had a message and a mission, and they were a part of that. You could hear not only his sound but also his worldview, boldness, and style in songs like “A Love Bizarre” and “Sex Shooter”.  In the case of proteges like Apollonia and Sheila E., you could see his influence in their onstage fashion and demeanor as if they were members of his own band. Oftentimes they were actually members of the band before or after their own musical releases. This was the case for Sheila E. on classic albums Sign O’ The Times and LoveSexy. He definitely shaped The Time although he insisted, particularly after the firing of Jimmy Jam and Terry Lewis, that it was Morris Day’s band. But all in all, Prince was about influence. He did it not only by constantly reinventing himself but also by making an impact for and through other people.

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Prince and Being True to Himself: A Little Intro/Preface (6 Part Series)

A Little Intro/Preface

I thought that these articles/essays may be worth something to established publications and blogs but I did not want it to turn into a journalistic exercise despite a halfhearted attempt at journalistic writing here and there. Importantly, I wanted each of these parts to be housed together as I’d conceived of them without any particular rules for how this should be written. This work is important enough to me to do it my way and to control. This is ultimately my expression, the expression of a true fan, that I want to share with the world especially the world of fans that made my journey with Prince (particularly in the 1990s) possible by supporting his career for several decades. I must also thank those recently discovering or rediscovering himself also for honoring in him as part of the appreciation he’s received in his later years including the time since his passing. I’m truly grateful for the support of these writings in addition to your contributions to my experience of Prince without which the journey would be incomplete–perhaps a subject for a more personal article at another time. Prince had this effect on people, intended or not. He brought people together, and my hope is to help add to what he started until we can all discover what it is that we should do now in a world without him. We have his music, and we have the history. We have each other. If they all can work together there is a life and richness to be cherished and shared. Within these posts is some of the history from one’s fan’s experience and personal point of view. This is my story of the most important value I received from Prince, a model of one who was true to himself.


In Part 1: The Artist Known As Prince, we go a little into his expression as an artist from the early days of the albums For You and Prince on to his relationship with Minneapolis, the city for which his “sound” was known prior to his crossing into completely different genres than the typical Pop, Funk, Dance, Rock, and R&B mix that he was known for. We even explore a little bit about his proteges. You may find that much of this only scratches the surface, so feedback from all of you is key. At heart, these are more essay than articles and aren’t necessarily about journalism and detail. But we’re just getting started, and we can go much further as time goes on given the demand for those sort of posts. These posts are for both me and you–not just one (or the other).

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Prince’s Spiritual Mission: The Artist’s Invitation and Message to the Dissidents of Organized Religious and Spiritual Doctrine

“… it’s the church thing that I hear in his music that makes him special, and that organ thing,” Miles Davis once explained. “Prince is like the church to gay guys. He’s the music of the people who go out after ten or eleven at night.”

“… it’s the church thing that I hear in his music that makes him special, and that organ thing,” Miles Davis once explained. “Prince is like the church to gay guys. He’s the music of the people who go out after ten or eleven at night.” Miles Davis followed and got to know Prince and eventually worked with him. He considered him a friend. Yet with the greatest respect to the late Miles Davis, this summation does not seem to be complete. Prince was perhaps that but much more–and still is–for many people; he was and is so meaningful to individuals who did not and do not subscribe to a particular religion or popular spiritual doctrine. The quote casts Prince’s famously androgynous image which, in reality, appealed to both straight and gay listeners of both genders as his primary appeal–which may or may have not been* true. Mr. Nelson was most readily known for his sexuality which he flaunted to no end in the prime of his pop music career. That at least was his lure–until he had pulled you in. Then you really listened. And listened. And in most cases, there was just something there that resonated with you. One may then realize how good the music really is, and that she is listening to a true musician appealing to the senses in a way that was not previously experienced. But there’s more. What you hear that’s often just as provocative as his sexuality is his appeal to the spiritual.

The sexuality and spirituality one-two punch appear to be a philosophical duality in the view of commentators and critics who compare him to Marvin Gaye (“Sexual Healing” versus “What’s Going On” for example), apparently another well-known saint and sinner in one, in this respect. This type of persona requires a unique view or radical acceptance of these two strongholds of the human condition in one mind (and, yes, soul). There are the physical passions which are a potent driver of life experience and, perhaps, creativity in the case of some of our favorite popular musicians. There’s the search for meaning often within religious scripture based often on many American’s Judeo-Christian upbringing. Prince, at one point, was a Seventh Day Adventist** whose “the end is near” message could his explain his appeal to apocalyptic symbolism that had a great pull on the American listener during the Cold War-era. The sexual passions and the search for meaning are the two strongest drives for many of us beyond the desire to breathe, drink and eat. So dissatisfied with the limitation of scientific explanation (at least in the present), some skeptics have co-opted religion-derived practices in addition to altered state experimentation (i.e. psychedelic drug use) to appease the inner self that will innately always be striving for more. Some of these even may be, not so coincidentally, fans of His Royal Badness who have found his music uplifting especially when divorced from an oppressive theology (notwithstanding post-millennial works such as The Rainbow Children). At the least, many secularists acknowledge the need for self-actualization which does not always have a clear boundary with the emotional and psychological experience of the spiritual. It would seem that at least during much of his prime, Prince realized this on some level as he actively provided motivational themes in his lyrics (think: “Let’s Go Crazy”).

People need sexuality (even if a latter day Prince advises more self-control), and they search for meaning in a “spiritual” sense. This is something that happens throughout the world among all of humanity. There are countless religions and countless believers. Those not subscribing to any particular religion still reach for something philosophical and science-supported to fill the in the gaps. Stoic philosophy is reemerging in the popular culture among entrepreneurs and scientists with themes that often are seen in the Eastern traditions especially Buddhism. Meditation is becoming a secularized practice with science-backed promises of cognitive and psychological benefits. A more recent trend of boldly secularized “spirituality” (and use of the term “spirituality” itself) has emerged as exemplified by neuroscience expert Sam Harris and skeptic/newsman turned meditation popularizer Dan Harris (apparently of no relation to the former) of ABC News and author of the book 10% Happier. Dan now has a podcast on the subject of meditation and mindfulness while Sam Harris has published bestselling books on the subject of the human need for (non-religious) spirituality and practice. Harris’ skepticism of religious teaching in general is not disputed, but he proclaims this aspect of experience is a true human need.

Prince knew about this need for many of those whose way of living or values do not appeal to the church’s agenda and do/did not fit into their flock. It seems as if he actively sought to appeal to those on the fringes that the church neglected. These groups included those who we refer to now as the LGBTQ, diehard individualists, the philosophical loners, the young wanderers, the curious, the freethinkers and any one who the religious mainstream would consider lost–outsiders in traditional Christianity in the 1970s, ’80s and ’90s especially. These would be the misfits that often enjoyed things like Punk music and styles of dress that may be considered androgynous, asexual, or somehow pushing the boundaries of what is acceptable (think: “Uptown”). These are people who may not identify with a recognized group in society. They are those who rejected tradition out of a negative experience of life similar to what Prince himself is said to have experienced. Or perhaps they felt liberated from a unique family experience. It is possible Prince was exposed to a bit of both himself. Yet his religion seemed to stick with him despite his seeming critical stance on organized religion (“Annie Christian”) at times, his appeal to controversy (political and sexual) and emergence as a famous musician signed to a major label at the young age of 18–eventually becoming a major global force in pop culture.

No matter how controversial his most visibly sexual and even socio-political content became, his appeal was broader than these two things. It was even bigger than the Minneapolis sound that he helped create. As his appeals to the sexual and often sensual waxed and waned, Prince became much more boldly spiritual in the various stages of his life. Sometimes it was presented in a more broadly inspirational mode with songs like “Diamonds and Pearls”, for example. Yet on the same album, there is the song “Thunder” which is more definitively about Biblical spirituality as he promises “to see Jesus in the morning light”. It is obvious that Prince knew which song would be the most appealing commercially, and of course, so did his record company. It was accessible even to those trying to find their way in life and looking for more generalized inspiration. After the dark period associated with the legendary Black Album and its aborted release, Prince dared to combine the two elements that obsessively possessed his soul into one concept on the album LoveSexy with the symbolic cover photo of him bearing (almost) all. On this album, he was, sometimes, a horny evangelist who professed a love that was not with a “girl or a boy” but with “the heavens above”. Yet it’s as if more vague themes like “Thieves in the Temple” (from Graffiti Bridge), angry yet spiritual, were a potential gateway drug to religious experience in his eyes. It was an invitation to his world of open-hearted spiritual connection–one that, album after album, included songs about salvation (“The Ladder”) and even Jesus Christ (“The Cross”).

Prince’s ultimate spiritual mission is laid bare in a song known mostly to die-hard fans. The song is out-of-the-box lyrically even for the unconventional Prince. “Strays of the World” was a song intended for the 1995 Warner Bros. release Come, an album seen as filler to get Prince a step closer to release from his contract since his relationship with Warner Bros. became undesirable. The song was later released on the NPG Records multi-disc set Crystal Ball, a collection of previously unreleased music once known only to fans with access to bootleg recordings. The song itself is a direct appeal to those he refers to as “strays of the world” who are welcome to “come on in”. It is reminiscent yet not as ingeniously crafted as the Purple Rain era “I Would Die 4 U”. It is different and could not be interpreted as a love song from a man who might be identifying himself as an individual’s savior (literally or figuratively). On it’s own, it remains a fascinating call to all of those who feel alone in life. His allusion to the divine as “Love” is a barely perceptible reference that appears repeatedly and consistently throughout his catalog and is a characteristic (pre-2000) Prince motif. His emotion is unrestrained even as his vocals tease in a quasi-whimsical tone when he sings “all ye boys and girls, all around the world”. The experience begins to climax with Prince symbolically intoning “thence we’ll kiss the rising sun/make love to the moon.” It is not complete until you hear him belt “come on in/the door is open”. Listening to his words, the lyricist’s intent is clear more than in any of his previous work. He intends to lead the listener home, no matter who they are or where they may be in life.

It goes without mentioning that Prince was, for most of his career, on a mission. His gospel was, at times, Jesus yet it was always “love”. It was love in every Roman sense (“agape”, “eros”, and so on). It was his address and his unspoken mantra “love 4 one another” that began before his internet ventures and well beyond the short-lived web URL (www.love4oneanother.com) used to release his music. It was not completely clear what Prince meant or intended for you (or his latest object of desire), but he wanted to see you happy and safe (even if through religious salvation), if only in the end (“the purple rain”). He wanted to help you “get through this thing called ‘life'”. It was the inspiration for “When Doves Cry” and it was the intent of “1999”. It wasn’t so much in “Soft & Wet” (not yet), but it would emerge over time. He believed in Love’s promises. He “knew” his status as a highly skilled and gifted musician was only an instrument for a higher purpose and the greater good. He may have at once thought that greater good included greater physical pleasure, but mostly he wanted to bring you “love”, “universal love”(see the “Space” remix) possibly and joy. His own love for humanity was not always directly expressed but it directed his efforts. In times of crisis, he wanted to warn you (“Sign O’ The Times”). Yet he offered hope (“Diamonds and Pearls”). He had vision (“The Love We Make”). Yet he wanted to play (“Raspberry Beret”). But overall, he wanted to “make a better day” (“Alphabet Street”). And for many such as myself, particularly as I struggled through my college years, he did just that.

We all need love, and we are all to an extent “strays” in the sense of family, religion, or other social groups. We all have ways in ways in which we don’t identify completely with those groups that tell us who or how we must be. And many of us found our solace in the music of a human being who seemed to transcend all of that. But now he’s gone. And where do we turn?

We miss him, and for most of us, that is not going to change for a long time. That is so clear now. There’s a gap–a void. For some, a black hole. What do we have to fill it with besides that with which he left us–our “old friends”, his songs? But is that enough? We’re feeling lost, yet we hold on to what remains. Is that enough? His very existence on this planet was much more than about his music. Prince embodied something greater–he was a living human force for being nothing but what you believed you should be. Even fans may be reluctant to acknowledge this truth: he was our leader. Now he is gone. And we’re left to mourn.

Even more, we are left to carry on. We can’t be Prince, but we can fight for the respect of what he has left behind and what it means. For “strays” such as myself, what remains is the inspiration, the hope, the joy, the thoughtfulness, the fun, the character, and the memories of a personality enshrined in a grand body of work–the work of a prolific innovator with a message. Our mission, now, is to honor and celebrate him and share that message. Love each other and party up! Even if not literally. We have to keep going. We have to live. We have to live to uplift the memory; that is, the memory fostered and inspired by the music and the performances. We have to treasure the meaning of the lyrics. We have to remember all of the things that he did–electric and profound. It is in this that we will return to the experience and share it with others. It’s an example of what art can and probably should be. It is an example of what life can be. In its purest form, the music is just a record. But dammit, in the context of human life, it is a record of history and bold ideas; and of an era or even multiple eras as individual as the man himself. It is the evidence of an unbearably unique soul. It is evidence of so much, but if nothing else, it is a legacy of love. It is a legacy of humanity. It is a legacy of boldness and truth. It is the legacy of the spirit and mission of Prince. It is the legacy of it’s creator–a legacy deserving of our ultimate gratitude and our ultimate respect. In us, this legacy lives on.

Patrick Norris
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Source of Miles Davis quote: Pitchfork.com

Link: http://pitchfork.com/thepitch/1114-inside-miles-davis-prince-obsession-as-detailed-by-davis-family-and-collaborators/

*Given Prince’s continuing impact it is hard to get the tense precise which I know to be significant to those mourn him. This fact is noted in the interest of authenticity. So I ask that you read this however best suits you. Prince’s impact past and present can never be overestimated.

**Prince converted to the Jehovah’s Witness faith in 2001. Interesting note: His marriage to Mayte Garcia was performed at Park Avenue United Methodist Church in Minneapolis in 1996.

For another perspective on Prince and interesting musing please checkout my friends at “Califragisexy: joy, funk, laughter, wonder, and the career of Prince” at this link: https://califragisexy.com/